He called her a few times after that and always talked highly of me and how happy he is. Then it would be text messages and more phone calls, she always wanted to talk to him about her kids. Then shortly after that he wanted to talk to his other expenses Michelle, again to tell him how happy he is and to see what was going on in her life.
One day he was letting me read some text messages and I had found a response to his ex Michelle that he would call her later and they would have a long talk. I felt a knife go through my heart. Then about a dating occupied japan ago he said he still wants to talk to them. They are officially his phone so I hope so. He has apologized and swears he loves me and wants to marry me.
They have a very similar family values in Japan, although I understand that the importance of family is emphasized more in China, as in Japan they often put their company they work for, or government first before family.
Much happiness to you and your husband, as well as his family who were able to see beyond the dating occupied japan and racial difference. Jocelyn, excellent post and MUCH appreciated. You might also want to check out Marguerite Duras, who wrote two very sensual books on the coupling between an Asian man and a young French woman.
The stares and comments were, at times, rather unbearable and my ex-fiance even managed to find himself in a brawl with a few Beijing officials after they made several rude comments about us while we were attempting to eat dinner in peace. The expectations of his family further complicated matters, as did his own feelings of inadequacy and the silly power struggles we had between us. As we currently live in NYC, we very rarely encounter strange looks or comments- interracial relationships of all kinds are pretty commonplace here.
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